How you, as a female career tiger, take back control over your life.
You did everything to build your career and have financial security, but do you feel there is more to life?
I take female career tigers from “I am too busy” to “I am in control.” So, you can create a purposeful and meaningful life from the inside out.
Is this you?
Your parents always told you, you needed to work hard for success. So, you did. You landed yourself a good job and a successful career.
But you start to realize there is more in life than work; there is you, relationships, and family. You see other people around you are getting married and having children, and you feel like you missed out. You want that too, but where to start?
How to take back control of your personal life?
If this sounds like you, congratulations! You’re ready for your next big breakthrough.
The most effective way to create a fulfilled and meaningful life is by eliminating all the noise around you. Once you have peace of mind, you can focus on those beliefs, habits, and patterns that stop you from living the life you have always wanted. After understanding what is holding you back, it is time to figure out who you are and how you’re meant to live.
You can have it all!
Ready to start living your full life?
Let’s meet to assess where you are now, where you want to be and if I am the right person to help you get there. Let’s talk!
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Guided meditation - English
- reduce overwhelm
- feel less stressed
- get better sleep at night
This deep guided relaxation meditation will help you relax your mind and body. After listening to this guided meditation, you will shift to a calm state of mind and wake up fully refreshed, recharged, and renewed.
Guided meditation - Papiamento
- reduci ansiedad
- reduci stress
- drumi mihor anochi
E deep guided relaxation meditation ta yudabo relaha bo mente y curpa. Despues di scucha e meditacion aki, bo lo sinti un paz mental y bo lo ta completamente refresca, recarga y renoba.
Work with me
Are you a female career tiger who is successful in her career? And you are ready to be successful in different areas of your life too!
If this sounds like you, let’s talk and explore if working together is a good fit.
Do you want to know more about how I can assist you? Wondering which solution is best for you? Then schedule a call with me. Choose a date and time via the button below and we will speak to each other soon via Zoom.
Made in Hong Kong and shaped in Aruba. At the age of five, I emigrated to this paradise in the Caribbean with my parents and brother. I learned four languages: Dutch, English, Spanish and Papiamento (a local language only spoken on three islands in the Caribbean). In those early years, I already worked in my parents’ business. To become successful in life, they taught me I had to work hard and make long hours, just like they had done all their lives.
I started a job in financial services and worked there for over 16 years! I didn’t expect that!
The company’s motto was “Work hard, play hard.” It fitted me like a glove, as I grew up with hard-working parents. I became a career tiger!
Lack of confidence
Lack of confidence has always been an issue for me. I have tried some tips I came across on the internet or other media, but they didn’t really work for me.
When I heard about Mindy’s coaching and the method she uses, I was a little skeptical. But in the end, I’m glad I gave it a try.
The first session I had with Mindy pointed me to some experiences I had in my early childhood and how I felt back then, which had been buried in the subconscious.
Uncovering and acknowledging that particular experience was a very important step for me. Now I can see myself more objectively and have a more positive self-image.
What I really liked about her coaching is that this whole process was quick and did not require a lot of effort before I saw improvement.
If you are looking for a coach, I would say give it a try with Mindy!
There are different possibilities in life
Shout out to Mindy Borgonje Ling, who showed me that there are different possibilities in life and moved me to take action in the direction that I wanted to reach.
When Mindy told me she was following a course about Rapid Transformation Therapy and Life Coach so she could develop herself more in this area to help others, I was very excited for her. This is Mindy’s calling; that’s what she loves doing: motivating and inspiring others to take action.
I didn’t doubt when she got her certificate that she could now start working with clients. I wanted to be her first client.
I just did her coaching program, including Rapid Transformational Therapy
And it was in one word:
Wow! I cannot describe the emotions that I experienced during the different sessions, but one thing I can tell, the feeling afterward was amazing after every session. It was like I had lost this burden on my shoulders.
Before, I was like living my life, but not living it. I wasn’t feeling happy or motivated. I was dealing with lots of work-related stress.
Now I start looking at things differently; each experience has a positive side. I start caring more about the most important person in my life: ME, being happy, living healthier, and taking care of myself. Mindy made me realize that no one will do that for me if I don’t do that. I had to learn how to set healthy boundaries at work.
And I feel happy; I lost weight (with no diet, but by focusing on what is healthy for my body), a complete makeover from the inside out. The compliments I’m receiving keep motivating me and, of course, my sessions with Mindy. There are days that, of course, I do not want to do anything or just want to eat junk food. It’s ok, as long as I go back to what I learned and keep moving forward. I don’t criticize myself anymore.
Would I recommend her?
Yes, of course!
The beauty of my transformation is that it intrigued others, and I was and am more than happy to tell them about my coaching experience with Mindy. I am so glad to see them contacting Mindy for coaching services.
So do not hesitate, start today by taking care of the most important person in your life: YOU! Contact Mindy for her coaching session; it’s worth it!
Thank you, Mindy, for this opportunity, for being this fantastic person who takes the time to listen without judgment and stirs me in the direction I want to be. Becoming a life coach was part of your journey to develop your passion for helping, motivating, and inspiring others to take action. Keep shining!
I was first referred to Mindy by a mutual friend, in whom I noticed an incredible transformation after she started following a few sessions with Mindy.
I was thrilled to see the lifestyle changes in my friend and how happy and amazing she looked but, to be honest.
I was still skeptical about whether any kind of coaching and Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) would work for me.
I find it quite hard to open up and speak to someone I do not know. Mindy made me feel at ease during the intake session. I enjoyed the Intake session with Mindy and felt “hopeful” that maybe (contrary to my previous beliefs) this kind of therapy could help me overcome and deal better with life’s struggles; I did not sign up right away for the following sessions.
Then, a couple of months later, I was going through a rough patch, a built-up of stressful personal and work-related issues/events, all happening simultaneously. I had fallen into a pattern of worse-case-scenario thinking and did not know how to change my negative mindset. I started feeling sad, scared, overwhelmed, and extremely anxious. At that point, I realized I needed to get help.
I’ve had 2 sessions with Mindy since. Immediately after the first session, I started feeling better. Rate level of feeling relaxed from 1 -10 (1 lowest, and 10 highest). I went from 2 to 8 after the first session and listened to the recording for less than 10 days.
Mindy’s soothing voice and guidance through wise words helped me calm down inside. I felt like I could breathe again, regained control and focus, and was able to take things on one day at a time. Mindy recorded personalized hypnosis for me, listening to it every night before sleeping for at least 21 consecutive days.
During the 2nd session, Mindy guided me to dig deeper into my subconsciousness. She led me to search deep inside and to a place way back as far as I could remember to identify and confront my limiting beliefs. Subsequently, she guided me through the process of start breaking through and reversing these limiting beliefs about myself through self-affirmation…… and, in doing so, owning my self-worth and truly believing “I’m enough.”
I’m not entirely there yet, but thanks to Mindy, I am well on my way. Mindy will help you look and feel great inside out.
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