{"id":137,"date":"2022-05-16T13:05:09","date_gmt":"2022-05-16T11:05:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindyling.com\/?p=137"},"modified":"2022-06-29T04:18:28","modified_gmt":"2022-06-29T02:18:28","slug":"you-are-not-one-size-fits-all","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindyling.com\/you-are-not-one-size-fits-all\/","title":{"rendered":"You are not one size fits all!"},"content":{"rendered":"

[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.17.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.17.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.17.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.17.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]* Do you have a boyfriend?
\n* Do you have a husband?
\n* Are you gay?
\n* Oh, so you don’t want to have children?
\n* Aren’t you running out of time? Tik Tok, Tik Tok<\/p>\n

These are just typical questions that people asked me in my single years. Do you recognise them?
\nI still get some of these questions now that I am married. And it makes me cringe when someone asks these questions!<\/p>\n

People might want to have a conversation or be genuinely concerned about your life. But does one need to follow the
\nexact expectations as the rest of the crowd?<\/p>\n

How would you feel if I asked you to squeeze into a one size fits all pants or put an oversized coat? <\/p>\n

Which question makes you puke from the inside, and what is your response? [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

* Do you have a boyfriend? * Do you have a husband? * Are you gay? * Oh, so you don’t want to have children? * Aren’t you running out of time? Tik Tok, Tik Tok These are just typical questions that people asked me in my single years. Do you recognise them? I still […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":376,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindyling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindyling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindyling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindyling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindyling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=137"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/mindyling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":385,"href":"https:\/\/mindyling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137\/revisions\/385"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindyling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/376"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindyling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=137"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindyling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=137"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindyling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=137"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}